This week I watched a Family Court Judge rule Facebook accounts to be “shut down,” because “children don’t need to be on Facebook.” While I agree that children and social media should be monitored and regulated, I must believe that a parent is most equipped for such and that no amount of “shut down” will stop a determined tech-savvy someone from doing just about anything online.
So what is this attack on Facebook really about? An article was published this week by ScienceBlog.com that Facebook is now linked to one out of every 5 divorces in the US, according to a study by the American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers. That’s divorces; that doesn’t even count the child custody and visitation cases. It isn’t that Facebook is inherently evil or intrusive. It is a tool for people to connect to one another, just like a cell phone or an email account. It is all about how you and your family use and regulate its use in your home.
If you are in the midst of a divorce and child custody matter you have probably already investigated into your partner’s Facebook account or online presence. You can glean valuable information for preparing your case just by digging around online, just as you can by viewing their phone records, text messages, or emails.
If you are in the midst of a divorce or contemplating filing for divorce or custody, contact a South Carolina family law attorney to assist in all your family law needs. We will help you uncover the truth and build a strong case to protect yourself and your interests.